Friday, September 14, 2007

Knowing yourself "thats Imp..."


An individual who is able 2 recognize and understand his true nature is able 2 do away with all pretenses…

People tend 2 believe that they know themselves well and are aware of their true nature & short coming, a belief which is convenient rather than true. At times it takes another person 2 break him self created fallacy but it is possible 2 get 2 know your self better through conscious introspection and by seeking answers from the external world including nature an the environment.

An individual who is able 2 recognize and understand his / her true nature is able 2 do away with all pretenses. His or her persona acquires open warmth an attractiveness, which inspires trust and respect in the people he or she interacts with.

Accept the fact that there will always be a difference between what u think about your self an what u r. The aim must be 2 minimize the difference or bridge the gap completely. And 2 do it successfully need 2 b observant, internally an externally to keep u r learning curve alert and active.

Other people’s reaction can often give clues 2 personality traits that u might not b aware of or have an incorrect perception of. If peoples don’t like 2 mingle with u or avoid u then it can be helpful 2 try and analyzes why that might be the case. Introspection on how ur treated by other ppl u can illuminate parts of ur personality and demeanors and allow u 2 make changes or amends if required. But this is only the case when u notice a particular slant in behavioral patterns with a no reasons. of ppl which suggests that it might have 2 do with u rather than the other person.

Ask your self,” Is life being kind 2 me?? "If ur answer is in the affirmative, then it it reflects on ur level of contentment an positivism. It means that u r aware of ur true self. However, if ur not so happy an uncomfortable with life, this would suggest that u need 2 know your self more, thereby making a synchrony with life.



Posted & Writer ...

Ritesh Kotian....

I've learned


I've learned
that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I've learned
that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I've learned
that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned
that you can keep going long after you can't. I've learned- that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned
that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I've learned
that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

I've learned
that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I've learned
that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I've learned
that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I've learned
that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I've learned
that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned
that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I've learned
that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I've learned
that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I've learned
that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others, Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I've learned
that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I've learned
that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I've learned
that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret, It could change your life forever.

I've learned
that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I've learned
that your life can be changed in a matter of minutes, by people who don't even know you.

I've learned
that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I've learned
that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon..