Saturday, December 1, 2007

Is there life after birth?


That would be more basic, because many people are born but very few people have life. Just by being born you are not alive. You exist, certainly, but life is more than mere existence. You ARE born, but unless you are reborn into your being, you don't live, you never live. Birth is necessary, but not enough. Something more is needed, otherwise one simply vegetates, one simply dies. Of course, it is a very gradual death -- and you are so unaware that you never know it, you never become aware of it. From birth to death, it is a long progression of death. It is very rare to come across an alive person. A Buddha, a Jesus, a Kabir -- they are alive. And this is the miracle: that those who are alive never ask the question: "Is there life after death?" They know it. They know what life is, and in that knowing, death has disappeared. Once you know what life is, death exists not. Death exists only because you don't know what life is, because you are yet unaware of life, its deathlessness.

You have not touched life; hence the fear of death exists. Once you have known what life is, in that very moment, death has become non existential.
Bring light into the dark room, and the darkness disappears; know life, and death disappears. A person who is really alive simply laughs at the very possibility of death. Death is impossible; death cannot exist, in the very nature of things: that which is will remain has remained always. That which is cannot disappear. But not theoretically; you have to come to this experience existentially.

Ordinarily this question remains in the mind, whether you ask it or not: the question, "What happens after death?" because nothing has happened before death, that's why the question. Because life has not happened even after birth, how can you believe and trust that life is going to happen even after death? It has not happened after birth, how can it happen after death? And one who knows life knows that death is another birth and nothing else. Death is another birth; a new door opens. Death is the other side of the same door you call birth: from one side the door is known as death, from the other side the door is known as birth.

Death brings another birth, another beginning, another journey -- but this will be just speculation to you. This will not mean much unless you know what life is.
A wrong question cannot be answered, or it can be answered only in a wrong way. A wrong question presupposes a wrong answer. Experience is the goal, not philosophizing -- and only experience solves the riddle. You are born, but not yet really born. A rebirth is needed; you have to be twice-born. The first birth is only the physical birth, the second birth is the real birth: the spiritual birth. You have to come to know yourself, who you are. You have to ask this question: Who am I? And while life is there, why not enquire into life itself? Why bother about death? When it comes, you can face it and you can know it. Don't miss this opportunity of knowing life while life surrounds you.

If you have known life, you will have certainly known death -- and then death is not the enemy, death is the friend. Then death is nothing but a deep sleep. Again there is a morning, again things will start. Then death is nothing but rest -- a tremendous rest, needed rest. After the whole life of toil and tiredness, one needs a great rest in God. Death is going back to the source, just as in sleep.
Every night you die a little death. You call it sleep; it would be better to call it a little death. You disappear from the surface, you move into your innermost being. You are lost, you don't know who you are.

You forget all about the world, and the relationship, and the people. You die a small death, a tiny death, but even that tiny death revives you. In the morning you are full of zest and juice again, again throbbing with life, again ready to jump into a thousand and one adventures, ready to take the challenge. By the evening you will be tired again.
This is happening daily. You have not even known what sleep is; how can you know death? Death is a great sleep, a great rest after the whole life. It makes you anew, it makes you fresh, it resurrects you…

Edit from a Books an Including Personal Thoughts...

EXPECTATIONS.....


EXPECTATIONS.....
Such a big word we have it from everybody from ourselves too!!!!

Now a days what ever we do or think, we have some expectations in return, is that the reason for all the stress and running around in life....

Get up in the morning make meals for our self...in expectation some day some body else will make for us from family part...will help or make at least one meal or at least come to kitchen just for company sake or wipe ma tears because of that silly onion…Nobody comes...... pain...is it due to EXPECTATION ?

Family member thinks our new bahuu has come we brought her in house for the sole purpose of taking care of the house and son what ever is she doing is her duty and she is always doing something wrong or what is not expected for her role, like wearing jeans, adding more salt, less salt not serving on time...list goes on ...pain...is it due to EXPECTATION?

Do what ever is the best in life for the kids and when they grow up they say what you have done extra in life for me? What ever you have done was your duty even a dog takes care of their babies!!!!! They go and get busy in there own life and tension.....pain...is it due to EXPECTATION?

Loving some one more then life wants every single accepts of life coming truth, making truth that dream which saw for us, a suddenly one small mistake between mess which could be unreasonable an every things starts going ……..down…. is it due to EXPECTATION ?

In love if asking for Valid reason between Mess & Problems occurred un while, un time, un expect Rather then feeling more guilty asking for a peace of …… Silent is it due to EXPECTATION?

Quietly Listening abuse words, spoken away under any discrimination or any kind situation. Listening it but not replying Just boz of repent…….. Promise… is it due to EXPECTATION?

Kids come home from school behaves the best he can, studies does everything what ever is expected of him/her or what ever we know is good at the end of day he expects you to buy a gift and if you don’t the old behavior returns.....pain....is it due to EXPECTATION?

Go to the office give your best for the whole day, whole month, whole year you dont get any promotion or increment but your colleagues gets it either at the same place or he/she has switched to a better company with huge income, what I got from my work...depression...pain....was it EXPECTATION?

Boss always expects the best from you, if you perform good he will feel you are paid for it. for a single mistake on your part he will simply blast and make you feel like a dirt or the worst person on earth....AGAIN A EXPECTATION?

So many expectations everywhere from everyone from every single aspect of life....Can't we leave all this EXPECTATIONS and just live the life, just for its own beauty and enjoy whatever we have ....with out EXPECTATIONS FAIL…


Expectation from... Ritesh Kotian...

...DEATH... KNOCKING ON MA CHEST ….


It was late night, as according ma daily updates I came home an had dinner near by 11.30pm, I get on to sofa an watching News near by sofa ma bed is ready, on one side ma eyes getting sleepy but even I feel some problems while taking breath. But this thing all ready happens me lots of time before… so dint wondered any thing big to happen… I Started to take breath faster an more faster, from mouth… even I cough twice a time so that ma heart keep pumping… could be Blood circulation is not reaching… but then too I dint feel good… an ma body temperature goes on high, an suddenly I feel whole home in faded… I can’t see the thing form ma naked eyes…I feel some on is sitting on ma chest an wants some to take away form me… I feel some thing is been changed… Some were the things are not going right… an suddenly I fall down to floor from sofa…I can see every thing is moving just only ma body, I can’t move some… I feel some one is sitting above me an pull me out…

Yes Yes… it was Death who Knocking on ma body…

This is some … conversation which took place in ma mind when I saw ma death in front of me….

Who is this? I am soni pari (the angel of death) let me come inside.

At once, I began to shiver As one sweating in deadly fever.
Please go away, O Angel of Death! Leave me alone; I'm not ready yet.
My family on me depends, Give me a chance, O please prepense!
The death knocked again and again,
Ritesh! I will take your life without any pain,
this your soul god requires, I come not with my own desire.
I began to cry, O Angel I am so afraid to die. Please don’t take me…
I am ready to give you gold and money, but don’t send me to grave.
Let me in, O Ritesh! The Angel said, open your eyes; get up from your bed, If you do not allow me in,
I will walk through it, like a Jinn…

I am not ready please give me a chance, but I dare an open ma eyes an ready to fight with ma death, it’s not so easy to take away me form ma self… if me have a gun then I would be shoot your head!!
By now the Angel was sitting on ma chest, Saying, O Ritesh! Prepare for you doom.
Why are you afraid! Tell me O Ritesh, I came hear according to gods plan?
Come smile at me, do not be grim, and come be Happy to return to Him.
O Angel! I bow my head in confident an say I always pray to god every time, every ma wrong steps he supports me, he only gives me energy to fight, he only souls ma problems… From morning till dusk “I always remind ma god” Not even I care for ma health.

God's command I always obeyed, nor for every times a day but every day I prayed to give me more energy to support me, to show right path…

A ganpati came an gone an navratri came an gone, I given ma every efforts to as a social work I have help the peoples & committee. I gave every single time to god. Even I visited to temples when ma wish comes to truth, even I donated money in to PatiDaan box. Even for charities I have donated money, for making temples i have given… even for worship of others I fasted more then 10 months at that time I left ma wine for several time, an I dint done any thing wrong between in period not even flirting with women or any crime. I obey ma family suggestion, I gave money to hungry baggers in road or railway station, I respect older age peoples, even if visitors come to home I respect them, for poor I provide waters, an also help ma friends & relatives an certain time…

O Angel! I appeal to you, let ma life for some more years, I dint seen this beautiful world yet till. i have ma family, it’s ma responsible to see after them, me having lots of responsibility to took… yet till I am small age … please don’t take me...

Angel! I do what god demands, we cannot go against His commands.
Death is ordained for everyone, Father, mother, daughter or son.
I am afraid this moment is your last, Now be reminded, of your past,

There is no time for you to repent, I will take your soul for which I am sent...

I do understand your fears, but it is now too late for tears. You breaking your promises all your life, making smile more then you made cry, you have break a heart, due to you some one hurts, yours baby & you turning off your face, no no now this tears will not going to bring happens...
O Ritesh, you have done enough wrong thing in this small age…
the time when someone required you, at that time you use abuse words for them, you became selfish just among to know your self more, you consisted your self right an rather them proving all wrong. You were paradise for your self...

It’s really a worst thing to face your own death in front of your own eyes, The thing which I have written above Is not a dream or any infection. An this is not ma views or visual towards death… yes but this is what I really feel when I saw ma self facing death, when i saw ma own life is taking away from me, and I could not do any thing at that time, I could see the things moving, I could feel air touché ma body but cant feel at that movement. I could see ma mother sitting beside me, but when she touched me I could not feel that warmness, by the time ma mind working, i felt that every thing has been stopped, the blood inside was floating like blasted volcano running out from High range.

May be I was afraid of all this...

As days go by.... I feel ma life is getting more shorter an shorter...


Written Based of Truth which saw an feel... By ...Ritesh Kotian...