What is love, Pyaar, Ishq, Mohabbat ? I think we have labeled many types of human desires and interactions as love.... but the basis of all these attractions we call love is possession.
We need to possess the person exclusively for ourselves. And when we have that desire strongly, we call it love.
I think that true love...or what should truly be called love is only "unconditional love". Love which believes only in giving. You give all so that you may the object of your love happy, irrespective of whether it makes you happy. The focus is on the person whom you love unconditionally. The focus of true love is to be happy in the happiness of the person you love!
I Would like to add 2 different way of love which we can see among our iner self ...
1) If you find someone else in love with you and you don’t love him/her, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but you refused the gift you can not return, do not take advantage, do not take pain....
2) If you find yourself in love with one who does not love you be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn’t choose to rest in the other person’s heart...
Ritesh Kotian
