LIFE IS BEAUTIFULL

Today i was just thinking about the good and bad days of ma life. There were so many ups and downs in ma life. I have so many bitter experiences in these 23 yrs of my age. Every person, whom I believed a lot, ditched me so badly that the pain of that betrayal still hurts me. Every person played with ma emotions and sentiments. And these all were ma closest one, whom i loved a lot ."DOST BAN BAN KE MILE MUJHKO MITANE WALE, MAINE DEKHE HAIN KAI RANG BADALNE WALE" this gazal is really implemented on me. But every time ma GOD was with me. I believe GOD is the only truth in this world. Whenever i was hurt, i remembered ma GOD, and asked HIM to give me strength and patience to bare it. I requested him to show me the right way to come out of this. And HE showed me the right way. I used to think that i m facing the worst part of this life. Ma life is useless, why this happens to me every time? Where me is wrong???

One day i visited the MSS Bhawan. Around 12 children had come there, who had been perched away from their houses (Kashmir).They were staying here now as they had lost their families, their parents. At that time i realized. I have ma parents with me, ma all relations, ma house. Am i facing the worst part of ma life???? And these children have lost their parents, friends, houses and even their childhood, even then they r ready to struggle....

We just get upset whenever the thing doesn't go well as we like or as we expected. We start to curse our life when we get hurt by someone who is ours life, or our dream is shattered badly with unreason points. But we should always remember dear that this is not the only worst part, there r some many other worst part also. God has kept us at very good place as we have everything to make our life best, to make the efforts to fulfill our dreams. There r so many persons who r sleeping on the road, with empty hands, without bread. There r so many peoples who doesn't have hands to earn. Look at them they still love their life and struggling. Then why we curse our life, having everything. I think we should always be thankful to our GOD. I specially want to say those persons who had bitter experience in their love life, and r in depression only due to this thing. As i have written in my post & also tried to explaining this entire thing. Common dear!! Love is not life, it is a part of life. I agree with this. I know the pain of broken heart is endless. But there r other things also in the life, other persons also who need u, and no doubt are also equally needed by u. Your parents, ur family and ur carrier. Look at them who have not meals for even a single time in the day, who have no mother to put a loving hand on their hand when there are sad, who have no house when their loved one is sleeping on the road in a very cold night, who have no money for the cremation of their loved ones when they say good bye to this life. Then!!!! What u say, is it right to curse ur life only for them who never loved u, never respected ur emotions. Dear u r at the best place, GOD had given u the best opportunity to make ur life. Don't waist it. Make ur self so strong and bright that every one is forced to fall in love with u..... All the best……………….

A Based Story to Explain Some one.. Special

The heart, the mind and I

It was another dawn, like any other. The mind led - the heart and I followed. Everything was hunky dory…an going accordingly what been thought an dreamed towards us….but there was something missing. The adventure, the excitement, the feeling of let go…the heart yearned for it all, and so did I. But the mind wouldn’t listen. “Far too dangerous, ma friend. I am the sensible one. So let me lead”.
I was a silent observer…
“But, when do I get a chance to lead? You have led all these years…for once, give me a chance”, pleaded the heart. It was a beautiful day of a beautiful spring. The mind was a bit weary too, of having burdened & the responsibility of life taking towards the FAST WORLD… of leading all the while. The prospect of sitting back and relaxing was far too alluring to ignore. The mind relented, “Go ahead, heart…lead us”.
The heart was delighted! It was exhilarating to be liberated…to be granted the power…to lead! We soared high up in the skies…the heart, the mind and I. The heart plunged into the depths of the ocean, and we followed. We flew over the mountains, ran across meadows, swam through the rivers and danced under the moonlit skies! When it was time for us to go, the mind intervened and said, “Let me take over now, you have had enough fun for those day”. But the heart and I were too drunk in the never-seen-before ecstasy of being liberated to listen to anything sensible. We sang, we danced, we drank in the beauty of life and we ran…ran…and ran…away from anything remotely worldly…till we found ourselves at the edge of a cliff in no-man’s land…The heart still ran, blind to the darkness around and deaf to my cries of warning. I stopped…but the heart still ran, fell off the cliff and broke ma self. And I watched…watched my heart go to pieces. The mind walked up to me and said, “I told you so”, and I nodded. I picked up my broken heart, tended it and nursed it. It’s learnt its lesson now, and I am sure it will be sometime before it would ask to lead again.

Copywriter@riteshkotian

The fear unknown...

Times too Often, I have felt ma self being stopped by this unknown fear of something devastating that I’m absolutely unaware of. It stops me from stepping ahead or putting ma foot down on something every time I feel strongly about the matters around me... May be this grappling fear is fear of not being understood by others...

Under such circumstances, I feel like:

Khud se baatein karte rehna
Baatein karte rehna
Aankhein moonde
Dil se apne
Baatein karte rehna

There r so many things in our day to day life that bother us; those we wish may change & those that can be changed merely if people around us become a bit more sensitive & concerned.. But we don’t speak out boz we fear that we might be standing alone in the crowd... & therefore it becomes really difficult to stand up for what we believed on it…
The basic fear that I comprehend is fear of facing rejection or non-acceptance from a peer group of those aliens, whom we are made a part of life..... Its a strange & ironical situation where we feel out of place yet we want to stay in the same place; may be because we feel at least secure there - if not comfortable (again afraid of an unknown danger)... Looks like we grow up being taught to be scared of dangers unknown which may be non-existent…
Under such hostile circumstances when our minds have been conditioned to accept things as they are & not to retaliate back, it becomes difficult to the extent of seemingly impossible, to stand up for ourselves..& we continue our life just like that, like Morpheus says in Matrix, “we live on, oblivious of the truth & our own self”... we continue to live a life of misery, uncertainty, indecisiveness & substitute & then finish of this dragging journey one day tired of fighting ourselves every time & losing again & again…Just because of this “One Fear”. If only we learn to stand up & say what we want to, unmindful of the consequences, we might find things are not that bad as we think... May be we could find people who think like us but can’t muster the courage to stand up & speak... & May be then this world will not seem as dreary as today… Boz there would be many then who would be living a life free from “The fear unknown”

Thoughts vs. Me vs. Actions

Thoughts vs me vs actions.

“Every thought has an equal and positive action”. By positive I mean to say that there “is” inevitably an action following a thought and the deed itself may be good, evil or inaction (“is” is the key-word here). Yes, even inaction is a form of action i.e. we are doing something by not doing something.

So every seed of thought sowed in our subconscious results in a deed –we may act positively on it by doing something good or negatively react to it by doing something bad or simply do nothing about it thereby doing the act of inaction. Our personality is a function of our thoughts. There is infinite no. of thoughts submerged in our subconscious, accumulated since the time of our genesis, beginning perhaps in our mother’s wombs and all these thoughts must result in a deed, though many such thoughts may collude to influence one act of ours and many acts may result from one particular belief or thought. For e.g. how we raise our kids is based on the thoughts we have accumulated over the years by experiencing it from the receivers end in our own childhoods and by what we see, hear, read and feel in the surroundings; we have stored all that information in our subconscious and when we turn parents we act according to our beliefs and personal dictums - so our “parent” personality becomes a function of our knowledge, based on ‘how to raise kids data’ stored in our subconscious.

Now the question is – can we control our actions, which is a function of our subconscious thoughts, consciously? Or is every action committed on impulse and instinct, guided by our deeply seated beliefs and thoughts? Can we really over-ride instinct and act according to will? If our bad deeds are considered impulsive then I don’t see how our good deeds are any different? Both good and bad deeds are a result of instinctual action, the instincts being a result of our deeply founded beliefs and thoughts. In doing good or bad we are only reacting to our beliefs and thoughts, so we are actually not responsible for both i.e. how can we, be responsible when we are only reacting?

Some learned men say that it is possible to choose how we act. But if our actions are only reactions to our thoughts then how can we voluntarily choose how to “react”? I guess, they are only trying to say that we can choose how to think and choose what to believe because in choosing what we believe we can control our actions, which are in fact a reaction to our thoughts and beliefs. We are programmed to act according to our thoughts and so it is not really choosing how to act that’s possible, it is only possible to choose what to believe and that dictates our personality and actions. But is that the truth?

How can we control our thoughts and beliefs? Where do our beliefs and thoughts stem from? Do we really know? What we come to believe and think may be heavily influenced by our circumstances. Our senses contribute immensely to how we feel about certain things. So if we feel hurt by something we will record it as a negative action in our subconscious whereas if something affects us positively we think of it as a good action. So are our thoughts and beliefs not a function of what we feel under a given set of circumstances? Do thoughts and beliefs necessarily stem from recorded feelings but then what about those feelings based on circumstances of which we have no real hand experience and are based on assumptions? What actually shapes our thoughts and beliefs?- Circumstances? Our five senses? Or is it a more abstract and ill-defined entity that makes us think, feel and believe whatever we do? If we can control that unknown aspect we would be voluntarily controlling what we believe and thereby how we act. I fail to identify it by a name. Can any of you help me out here?

Till then I would like to believe that our personality is a function of our thoughts and beliefs and there is not a method known to me by which I can voluntarily shape ma beliefs and thoughts, therefore I concede I am useless as far as controlling ma actions is concerned because ma actions are the inevitable positive reaction of ma thoughts and beliefs (which I cannot control!). Am I a victim of ma circumstances?

I got this from Somewhere...
i don't remind it know...

I love you!

I love you
The famous three words we never hear enough of in our life. Throughout our life span we keep looking, waiting and hoping for something to take us, or lead us, to our true love. Have you ever wondered where we can find love?

What really is this word “Love” that we keep repeating to that someone special in our lives? How many times do you tell your partner “I love you”? Do you really mean it, or do you just like to hear yourself speak? Or, is it just being said because it is part of the vocabulary that your partner likes to hear, or that helps make them feel secure about themselves. So what’s love in the first place? What does love mean to you? Where can we find it?

Before looking for answers, we need to establish things ourselves and understand the meaning of the word “LOVE”.

Love, in ma point of view, is a flow of energy between two people that can bring awareness of their existence on this plane together, and this helps their relationship, and the harmony between them, to grow. If love is a flow of energy, basically it is not costing you anything so why do we hold ourselves back from truly sharing that love with someone else. Vulnerability, security, or maybe fears prevent us, but how hard are we really trying to achieve “true love”?

Love is already in your own backyard and we seem to have a hard time accepting this. To be able to accept love we need to learn how to give it in the first place. Love already exists in our “being” as humans share the most precious, intimate and secret jewel that is in our soul, our growth, and our spirit.

How much do you love yourself, or accept yourself for who you are? I am not introducing this question in an egoistic or selfish way. The amount of love you attract is really a reflection of the amount you give to others. We mirror what is already in us. You cannot get love from what you don’t have in yourself in the first place. The amount of time and effort you are willing to put into accepting, or inviting, true love to yourself is the same amount you are already accepting or giving to yourself? Are you ready to be in love? Ask yourself this question. Let go of your pride and fears, and invest in yourself. Think about it!

Do not allow one bad relationship to hold you back or stop you from investing in love again. Holding yourself back from loving someone is as equal to, or as important as, attracting love to your own life. We always look to receive love from another person but it is the contrary, you hold your happiness in your own hands. So open your heart and a new love will come and approach you. Don’t go too far to look for that true love. Just start searching for it within yourself!!! Sometimes it is hard to love ourselves because of different occurrences that have happened to us. We lose our own self-confidence and self-esteem. What I suggest, to renew your confidence in yourself, is a change of attitude. Appreciate yourself first, for who you are. Love yourself for who you are, and NOT for the way people want you to be, in their image. You are who you are, and if someone does not like you for what you are, then they are not the right one for you.

Now again comes the question - do you really mean it when you say to someone that you love him or her? Of course in ma opinion, you need to distinguish between real love and infatuation. A person that showers his or her partner with material things or gifts usually has two motives. First, he or she is substituting one thing they can’t offer to their partner (love) and second he or she is hiding something from their partner (finding love somewhere else). Where am I going with this, just to say that love has no value attached to it? Either you give love from your soul or you don’t. Let’s just stop kidding ourselves by living a fancy unreal life. Love has no monetary value attached to it otherwise it would not be love. Love is a flow of energy so how can we place a price on it.

Until you find true love in your own heart, embrace every moment and enjoy your exploration of life and what it can bring to you.

Remember, love someone for who they are and not for the way you want them to be. Appreciate them as human souls. Happy discovery!!

A Reality Life Story,

Which been Faced by me...

Ritesh Kotian ... Uff a Broken Back ....

RIGHTS OF DREAM

Now, today what I’m going to say is just unbelievable and concern to 6^th sense. May be you all have seen such an exceptional case. Sometimes it happened that whatever is going to happen in ours life, there might be someone who is watching us and popularly known as God.

A person whenever gets desperate and curious to know the answer of current situation one dream comes and solve their problem by way of live telecast in dream either it’s sweet or savour.

I had discussed with some palmist/fortuneteller in the year 2006 and they told me this is normal and it happens in everyone’s life some people remember and some forget. Anyway I didn’t get the proper answer. Not convincing.

I was very much desperate to know about ma career when I was a college student. Ma goal of life was to become MBA (Management Student), specially from Marketing an Human Resources. Now, you all may be taking aback. All things were going very smooth. During my Preparation Articleship each and everything was on right track but as it comes in everyone’s life. Girl who may be Goddess Durga, Sarshwati and Laxmi. But as far as ma dreams are concern she was a White Angle Cobra she was swallowing ma career and future and I destroyed ma future by way of Bunch of Mess.

But before that I would like to mention some more truths. Everyone has examination and result phobia. Whenever I appeared in the exam and result awaiting you can’t believe marks obtain by me was the same as I had seen in ma dreams, Even I still remind that day, when ICFAI Institution madam told me “Ritesh I think tumko aur time chaiye to Practice, boz u marks are not that much that u can eligible to get enters for MBA” hahaha haha .. I was knowing ma result before only… from 200/5… ma online score card.

Sometimes it happened too that some dreams comes I wake up and forget but I recall once again when such an incidence occurred in ma life. I don’t know where it happens with everyone’s or not but as ma age is increasing its getting down and it happens sometimes now but not as earlier very frequently.

Here, I can’t bet due to little knowledge about 6^th sense and palmistry but if I recall ma earlier experiences why such type of things was happing in ma life. Whenever I get desperate I seen what’s after that……………… and why it’s not happing now? Today I’m very much desperate to know about rest of ma life. I heard somewhere that anyone can become mad if he comes to know what’s going to happen in his future life may be very much difficult. This is truth dear not earlier but now I’m felling some kind of abnormal behavior upto some extend. I scare to talk with people face to face. Some kind of phobia. Life yet to settle. May I expect any help?

A Truth Based Story from me...

Broken heart --(A Discussion)

Ever you fall in love and broken heart badly? Today I’m asking this question because I’m getting so many e-mails, Scrapes, Off lines & calls regarding love & affair and broken heart. In early days when I was in college me and some friends were on discussion table and topic was “what happened when we say some 1 broken my heart” what a condition or situation occurred. It was very tough topic for every one where no was fall in love and has no experience of either fall in love with opposite sex or broken heart. Anyway in our residence area there was load ceding of electricity for 2 hours. Our discussion was running very fast among 4 friends. Every one has different opinion and their own logic too. “Apni Laal kar reha the sab”. As I told you early it was very much difficult to express any opinion when you have no idea on any particular topic.

After one week I was watching TV program named Turning Point and Prof. Yashpal from Indira Gandhi Open University was giving the answers of some viewers letter; one person from Chennai has asked the same question, and according to prof. Yashpal, heart is a part of human body who just work as pumping the blood in our body and nothing, but when we get emotional or feeling some pain when any relationship has been broken down then we shouting “hai usne mera dil tod diya”. Just imagine heart which is made by same molecules as our rest of body parts so if it’s broken, then their work i.e. to pumping blood into our whole body will stop and then as you know we will definitely die. So broken heart is only a feeling of inner side of human mind and nothing else. Like wise when we feel sad, tears automatically comes from our eyes but when we feel happy a smile or a huge laugh on our face comes automatically.

One day me and some friends were in a garden for morning walk, so many people were in this garden and every one was busy in their work, as we had habituated of experiment we saw four girls were also in this garden, one my friend makes comment “arey bapu ke toh 3 bander the ye aaj 4 kaise?” Girl was also very much experienced of such comments she just comes close to us and she also make some comment, “Ghode (horse) ko dekho koi lamba koi chhota, koi dubla koi mota magar Gadhe (ass) sab ke sab ek size aur ek rang ke………………!” Hhahahahhaa Uff toooo much! What a reply?

Anyway, I’m Mr. Ritesh Kotian ……broken heart what about you?

Ø If you are a chocolate you are the sweetest, if you are a Teddy Bear you are the most huggable, if you are a Star you are the Brightest, and since you are my “FRIEND” you are the “BEST”!!!!!!!!!

Ø I m your doctor, sorry to say that you have a brain problem, your brain is in 2 parts left and right. The left has nothing right in it and the right has nothing left in it.

Ø Some persons are remembered because of their S_M_I_L_E, some are remembered because of their S_T_Y_L_E, but _Y_O_U_ are remembered because you r _S_P_E_C_I_A_L.

Ø They say it takes a minute 2 find a special person, an hour 2 appreciate them, a day 2 love them, but then an entire life 2 forget them.

Ø Dictionary is the only place where Death comes before Life, Success before Work and Divorce before Marriage but Friend comes before Relatives.

Ø GOOD FRIENDS are those WHO CARE without hesitations, WHO LOVE without limitations and WHO REMEMBER even without communications.

Ø Time might lead me to nowhere and faith might break into pieces but I will always be THANKFUL that once in ma life’s journey we became ONE!...

Ø Our friendship is ideal. If You are happy then I will find ma happiness in it. If You sad I sad too. If You cry I cry too. If You laugh I laugh too. If You jump out of the window, I look down & again I laugh…. Hahahahahha !!!!

Ø Why do we close our eyes when we pray? When we cry? When we imagine? When we kiss someone we love? Because the most un dreadful things in life are unseen & are felt only by heart…

From Ritesh Kotian...

5 Reasons Why God Uses Problems...

5 Reasons Why God Uses Problems

The problems you face will either defeat you or develop you –depending on how you respond to them. Unfortunately, most people fail to see how God wants to use problems for good in their lives. They react foolishly and resent their problems rather than pausing to consider what benefit they might bring.

Here are five ways God wants to use the problems in your life:

1. God Uses Problems To DIRECT U
Sometimes God must light a fire under you to get you moving.

Problems often point us in a new direction and motivate us to change.

Is God trying to get your attention? "Sometimes it takes

a painful situation to make us change our ways."

2. God Uses Problems To INSPECT U
People are like tea bags...if you want to know what's inside them,

just drop them into hot ever water! Has God tested

your faith with a problem What do problems reveal about you?

"When you have many kinds of troubles, you should be full

of joy, because you know that these troubles test your faith,

and this will give you patience."
3. God Uses Problems To CORRECT U

Some lessons we learn only through pain and failure.

It's likely that as a child your parents told you not to touch a hot stove. But you probably learned by being burned. Sometimes we only learn the value of something... health, money, a relationship. ..

by losing it. "It was the best thing that could have happened to me,

for it taught me to pay attention to your laws."

4. God Uses Problems To PROTECT U
A problem can be a blessing in disguise if it prevents you from
being harmed by something more serious. Last year a friend
was fired for refusing to do something unethical that his boss
had asked him to do. His unemployment was a problem - but
it saved him from being convicted and sent to prison a year
later when management's actions were eventually discovered.
"You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good...
5. God Uses Problems To PERFECT U
Problems, when responded to correctly, are character builders.
God is far more interested in your character than your comfort.
Your relationship to God and your character are the only two
things you're going to take with you into eternity.

"We can rejoice when we run into problems...
they help us learn to be patient. And patience develops strength of
character in us and helps us trust God more each time

we use it until finally our hope and faith are strong and steady."

Here's the point Ad:

God is at work in your life - even when you do not recognize it or understand it. But it's much easier and profitable when you cooperate with Him.

"Success can be measured not only in achievements, but in lessons learned, lives touched and moments shared along the way"

You are in love.....

When you are together with that special someone, you pretend to ignore that person. But when that special someone is not around, you might look around to find them.
At that moment, you are in love.

Although there is someone else who always makes you laugh, your eyes and attention might go only to that special someone.
Then, you are in love.

Although that special someone was supposed to have called you long back, to let you know of their safe arrival, your phone is quiet. You are desperately waiting for the call!
At that moment, you are in love.

If you are much more excited for one short e-mail from that special someone than other many long e-mails,
you are in love.

When you find yourself as one who cannot erase all the emails or SMS messages in your phone because of one message from that special someone,
you are in love.

When you get a couple of free movie tickets, you would not hesitate to think of that special someone.
Then, you are in love.

You keep telling yourself, "that special someone is just a friend”, but you realize that you can not avoid that person's special attraction.
At that moment, you are in love.

While you are reading this blogs, if someone appears in your mind,
then u are in love with that person...;))

Copywriter

Ritesh Kotian...

Love…. And you shall be loved...

Love…. And you shall be loved
Anger is a condition in which the tongue works faster than the mind…
You can't change the past but you can ruin the present by worrying over the feature…

God always gives His best to those who leave the choice with him…
All people smile in the same languages…

A hug is a great gift… one size fits all it can be given for any occasion & it’s easy to exchange…

Everyone needs to be loved… Especially when they do not deserve it…
The real measure of a man’s wealth is what he has invested in eternity…

Laughter is God's sunshine everyone has beauty but not everyone sees it…
It's important for parents to live the same things they teach…
Thank God for what you have THRUST GOD for what you need…
If you fill your heart with regrets of yesterday and worries of tomorrow you have no today to be thankful for...

Man looks at outward appearance but the lord looks within…
The choice you make today will usually effect tomorrow…
Take time to laugh, for it is the music of the soul…

If anyone speaks badly of you live so none will believe it...
Patience is the ability to idle your motor when you feel like stripping your gears…
Love is strengthened by working through conflict together…

The best thing parents can do for there children is to love each other
Harsh words break no bones but they do break hearts…
To get out of a difficulty one usually must go through it…

We take for granted the things that we should be giving thanks for…
Love is the only thing that can be divided without being diminished...
Happiness is enhanced by others but dose not depend upon others…

For every minute you are anger with someone you lose…
60 seconds of happiness that you can never get back…
Do what you can, for who you can…
With what you have & where you are….
Wishing Your Day Be Filled with love and peace……

Edit Writer ...

Ritesh Kotian...

Reflections of a broken heart….

The glass is shattered ….. Broken with thousands of tiny small pieces
with thousand of tiny pieces scattered in all the directions and all of them showing me ma own reflection……
the truth around me and within me………….
but still ma kohl smudged and tear filled eyes fail to accept that……..

I knew from the first day that your love was not mine…. I knew from the first day that your feelings were not mine…..
Still I did not caution ma self and got carried away in ma self generated feelings of love for u…
today once again I faced the truth trying to tell ma self in a strong voice that u never loved me…
the way I though u did …………u lost your love in your life’s journey and found a little solace in me for sometime…
I mistook that for love……….but it was just fulfilling a need for u nothing more than that…..

Now once again you have found your lost love back….that I have realized what was ma place in your life…. I will still not be able to leave you or love you less
But please help me…to save ma own little world inside me…
Its breaking ……..and I am scared this will take away everything from me…..

I wish u a beautiful life ahead full of love with the one you love…. But please for the one last time I ask for your help…
Don’t deny same as what u done before to me…
Just for the sake of ma love for u………

I am not asking you to give yourself to me……but please in this hour of need
Please don’t turn ur back…please don’t be so heartless and merciless…
You know it’s…..only u who can save me now……

From Ritesh Kotian...

Madness......

A glimpse of u and ma whole world ... converges in to the pair of those eyes.
digging straight in to ma soul… ur ma small universe…

u have started talking now a days keeping one hand on ur heart…
it feels nice and makes me believe in the genuineness and honesty of what u say..
as if i ever doubted what u said…

i asked u to give me a no ..that u don’t love me… but you said u cant do that…
that little thread of hope binds me so strongly to u..
even though i know u do not belong here in ma life but will always be there in ma heart…

You always belonged to someone else... but still connected with me in some strange from…
i fail to understand sometimes… but now I have stopped trying to understand our relationship…
i know now in ma heart that no matter what...its never going to change for me…

its like a marriage oath.. "Till death do us apart"...
but we need not take it again and again its their in the heart and will always remain…
no matter the distance which grows us apart… no matter how much u love someone else…
but the love u have given me is only mine... what u feel inside for me is only mine... no one can snatch that from me...

me hurt when you love someone else is never going to change..
i may always behave outrageously at its mention...
but that will not make you stop loving or stop meeting someone..
out of ma own love i do not like that ..
but as your friend...i don’t want to deprive you of that..
you deserve lot of love and care...

i respect you a lot for the way you have behaved with me...
i adore the way you have loved me in your own little ways...
but the incompleteness of the love i share with you leaves me..
more emptier inside and more lonely than i already was....
and that leaves me think so often… that I either you do not love me…
or the assumptions of the adverse outcome of our closeness scare u...
so you continue to maintain distance...
and with that non communication i end up confused....
not knowing where i am wrong...
its not the loss of trust in you as u said once ... from ma side it will never be…
but its that i do not trust ma self enough to deserve any kinda...
love from u despite the .....
Madness with which i love you……..

A Truth behind life...

From Ritesh Kotian

DON'T SEE BACK

As you travel through life there are always those times when decisions just have to be made, when the choice are hard, and solution seem scarce & the rain seems to soak your parade...

There are some situations where all you can do is simply let go and move on, gather your courage and choose a direction that carries you toward a new dawn...

So pack up your troubles and take a step forward – the process of chane can be tough, but thinking about all the excitement ahead if you can be stalwart enough!

There might be adventures you never imagined just waiting around the next bend & wishes and more dreams just about to come true in ways you can’t yet comprehend!

Perhaps you will find friendships that spring from new things as you challenge your status Quo, & learn there are so many options in life, and so many ways you can grow!

Perhaps you will go places you never expected & see things that you’ve never seen or travel to fabulous, faraway worlds and wonderful spots in between!

Perhaps you will find warmth and affection and caring & somebody special who’s there to help you stay centered and listen with interest to stories and feeling you share...

Perhaps you will find comfort in knowing your friends are supportive of all that you do & believe that whatever decision you make, They will be the right choice for you...

So keep putting one foot in front of the other & taking your life day by day… there’s a brighter tomorrow that’s just down the road--
Don't See back! You're not going that way!

Copywriter

Ritesh Kotian...

Does Love need a Reason...??

Once a lady when having a conversation with her lover, asked:

Lady: Why do you like me..? Why do you love me?

Man: I can’t tell the reason… but I really like you…

Lady: You can't even tell me the reason... how can you say you like me? How can you say you love me?

Man: I really don’t know the reason, but I can prove that I love U.

Lady: Proof? No! I want you to tell me the reason. My friend's boyfriend can tell her why he loves her but not you!

Man: Ok…ok!!!... Because you are beautiful,

Because your voice is sweet,

Because you are caring,

Because you are loving,

Because you are thoughtful,

Because of your smile,

Because of your innocent,

Because of your every movements.

The lady felt very satisfied with the man's answer.

Unfortunately, a few days later, the Lady met with an accident and went in comma.

The Guy then placed a letter by her side,

Darling, Because of your sweet voice that I love you...Now can you talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you.

Because of your care and concern that I like you…Now that you cannot show them, therefore I cannot love you.

Because of your smile, because of your every movements that I love you…

Now can you smile? Now can you move? No, therefore I cannot love you...

If love needs a reason, like now, there is no reason for me to love you anymore.

Does love need a reason?

NO! Therefore,

I still LOVE YOU...

"True love never dies for it is lust that fades away. Love bonds for a lifetime but lust just pushes away"

Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.'

Copywriter

Ritesh Kotian...

Classic definition & Cool Meanings

Cigarette: A pinch of tobacco rolled in paper with fire at one end & a fool at the other.

Love affairs: Something like cricket where one-day internationals are more popular than a five day test.

Marriage: It's an agreement in which a man loses his bachelor degree and a woman gains her master

Divorce: Future tense of marriage

Lecture: An art of transferring information from the notes of the lecturer to the notes of the students without passing through "the minds of either".

Conference: The confusion of one man multiplied by the number present.

Compromise: The art of dividing a cake in such a way that everybody believes he got the biggest piece.

Tears: The hydraulic force by which masculine will-power is defeated by feminine water-power. ..

Dictionary: A place where divorce comes before marriage.

Conference Room: A place where everybody talks, nobody listens & everybody disagrees later on.

Ecstasy: A feeling when you feel you are going to feel a feeling you have never felt before.

Classic: A book which people praise, but does not read.

Smile: A curve that can set a lot of things straight.

Office: A place where you can relax after your strenuous home life.

Yawn: The only time some married men ever get to open their mouth.

Etc.: A sign to make others believe that you know more than you actually do.

Committee: Individuals who can do nothing individually and sit to decide that nothing can be done together.

Experience: The name men give to their mistakes.

Atom Bomb: An invention to end all inventions.

Philosopher: A fool who torments himself during life, to be spoken of when dead.

Diplomat: A person who tells you to go to hell in such a way that you actually look forward to the trip.

Opportunist: A person who starts taking bath if he accidentally falls into a river.

Optimist: A person who while falling from Eiffel Tower says in midway "See I am not injured yet."

Pessimist: - A person who says that O is the last letter in ZERO, Instead of the first letter in word OPPORTUNITY.

Miser: A person who lives poor so that he can die rich.

Father: A banker provided by nature.

Criminal: A guy no different from the rest... except that he got caught.

Boss: Someone who is early when you are late and late when you are early.

Politician: One who shakes your hand before elections and your Confidence after…

Doctor: A person who kills your ills by pills, and kills you with his bills.

From Ritesh Kotian ...

Women and God

A middle aged woman had a heart attack and was taken to the hospital.

While on the operating table she had a near death experience.

Seeing God she asked "Is ma time up?" God said, "No, you have another 43 years, 2 months and 8 days to live." Upon recovery,

The woman decided to stay in the hospital and have a Facelift, liposuction, and a tummy tuck. She even had someone come in and change her hair color.

Since she had so much more time to live, she figured she might as well make the most of it. After her last operation, she was released from the hospital. While crossing the street on her way home,

She was killed by an ambulance. Arriving in front of God, she demanded, "I thought you said I had another 40 years? Why didn't you pull me from out of the path of the ambulance?"

God replied,

“I didn't recognize you."

Edit Writer

Ritesh Kotian.....